How do you know what you want? | Blog

Welcome to the new blog series “Discover Your Essence to Build the Life You Want!”

Have you ever found yourself overwhelmed and lost, questioning yourself to find out what you really want your life to look like, and being totally unable to even start answering this question? I have been there, and it took me sooo long to start finding out how I wanted to shape my life.

As you know, we usually have a pretty good knowledge of what we don’t want. And this is already a good start. Knowing exactly what we want, on the other hand, can be really hard to define.

Through my journey of becoming a professional life and career coach, I discovered that this is a common struggle. Many of us are more in tune with our dislikes and discomforts rather than our true desires. This understanding is a critical first step because it helps us clear the clutter and focus on what really matters.

The Challenge of Defining What You Want
Understanding what you want is more than just making a list of goals. It’s about delving deep into your essence, uncovering your core values, and recognizing what truly brings you joy and fulfillment. This process requires introspection and honesty, as it often involves challenging our preconceived notions and societal expectations.

My Journey of Self-Discovery
In my own journey, the turning point came when I started my training to become a certified Mastercoach. The rigorous training and practical experience helped me develop a structured approach to self-discovery. I learned to ask the right questions, use effective tools, and follow a systematic process that not only clarified my own goals but also made this journey quicker and more enjoyable for my clients.

Benefits of knowing what you want?
Knowing what you want provides a sense of direction and purpose. It empowers you to make decisions that align with your true self, leading to greater satisfaction and fulfillment. You become proactive in creating the life you envision, rather than reacting to circumstances.

Tools and Techniques for Self-Discovery
In this series, I will share with you the very tools and techniques that have proven successful for many. Here’s a sneak peek into some of the methods we’ll explore:

🌱 Lifeline Exercise: This tool helps you visualize the highs and lows of your life and reflect on how these experiences have shaped you. It's a powerful way to identify patterns and themes in your life, providing insights into your values, strengths, and desires.

🛞 Life Wheel: This tool helps you assess and balance different areas of your life, such as career, health, relationships, and personal growth. It provides a visual representation of where you are and where you want to be.

🌟Value Clarification: Identifying your core values is essential. Values guide your decisions and actions, ensuring that you live in alignment with what truly matters to you.

🧘 Needs Analysis: Understanding your fundamental needs is crucial. This exercise helps you identify what you need to feel fulfilled and how to meet those needs in healthy ways.

💪 Strengths Identification: Recognizing your strengths allows you to leverage them effectively. This tool helps you pinpoint your inherent talents and abilities, boosting your confidence and guiding your choices.

P.S. If you are discovering me for the first time, Hi, I'm Corina, a certified Mastercoach with 18 years of corporate experience, including leadership roles. As a mother of three, I understand the challenges of balancing personal and professional life. Let's work together to unlock your full potential!

Join Me on This Journey

Are you convinced and ready to embark on this journey of self-discovery? Over the next few weeks, we will delve into each technique in detail, providing you with practical steps to uncover your true desires and build the life you want.

See you in next week’s blog (Thursday is our day), and until then, don’t forget to keep growing!

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